Life since graduating from Academy has been very exciting! Every time J gets home there are always stories to tell and things to talk about. Dinner conversation is never boring. Drug busts, car crashes, foot chases, and crazy domestic calls are always among the stories. For now it’s exciting to hear all the details of every call. Although it has been an adjustment, as we now have officially experienced day, swing, and night shifts…. it hasn’t been too difficult of a transition so far. I think we are in the NEW and EXCITING phase of it all!
For those of you who don’t know J is still on his probationary period and will be for quite some time. He is soon finishing his 2nd phase of training and is about to head into his 3rd. What that entails is working with different FTO’s – field training officers who teach, observe & critique you while on duty. So he is a fully functioning police officer but is always with another officer. After phase 3 he will be on his own! He is loving every minute of it all. Not to say there isn’t stressful moments….
The first day back from academy he went to a call of an attempted murder! The scene of the crime was less than pretty. But for a rookie he definitely got thrown right in and helped investigate the scene. Welcome to the Job! Good Grief! I’m pretty sure this is how our text conversation went that day (which is minimal already):
Me : How was shift?
J: Oh boy do I have a story for you. First night back and we have an attempted murder! Crazy!!!
Me: WHAT??!?! Awesome. (insert sarcasm)
J: no response.
Then I didn’t hear from him till he came home later that morning. Totally not the kind of thing you want to hear on your mans first night back esp. when your trying to go to sleep. Ha! But non the less it kick started his career and all went well.
The second day back from academy he got to drive the police car with his FTO in the passenger seat. Nerves were high already as you want to be able to find the location of the call and maneuver the streets the quickest way possible. But of course as the rookie your learning to balance and multi task so much all at once that mistakes are inevitable. Learning to answer a call, figure out where you are going, figure how your going to handle the situation once you get there becomes a load of stress. Especially when you have an officer grading you essentially on your every move in real life situations. But he is getting the hang of it after going down a few wrong streets and making some mistakes- which is expected. He’s got nothing but good feedback from his FTO’s, along with being at the end of a few good pranks to welcome him to the team. Many officers have even said that not until about 2 years of working does everything seem to finally just click- the layout of the streets, the order in which you do everything and why you do it that way seems to just all make sense. So J is on the right track!
I think one of the funniest stories was when he first started and was transporting a person to the jail. The streets are super narrow and are full of parked cars so at times it can be hard to see if there are cars coming as you are trying to cross from a side street. He was driving. He pulled forward past the parked cars to see if there was any traffic coming and right at that moment a car flew past causing J to slam on his brakes. Unfortunately right at that same moment the transporte in the back was leaning forward and smashed their head against the cage bar. Uh-Oh….. J got a good nasty stare from his FTO and J profusely apologized to the passenger, as it was a total accident. Luckily the passenger was fine. In the moment it was humiliating. No one let that story go at the department for a few days. Yet it made for a good learning experience and a good laugh later!
I will say as a wife hearing SO many stories already, I am amazed at how many people will smoke, sniff, and snort pretty much anything they can get their hands on. I’m constantly shocked at what the police officers find from day to day. The quality of life so many people live is sad. Hopelessness is overpowering their lives. It’s interesting as I often find myself defending people and wondering why they act the way they do. I’m such a advocate at heart. Makes for an interesting combo for the two of us!
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We would love your prayers as J heads out of training. Pray for wisdom, safety & confidence. Pray that J can show respect and love to all who he comes into contact with while also protecting himself & the community.